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Restoring A Nation
July 2002
The
following article was written by Emilio Padilla Morales, the
director of the Arms of Love Children's Home in Managua,
Nicaragua. A native of Nicaragua, Emilio shares how his new
ministry with Arms of Love is the fulfillment of a
20-year-old vision to help children at risk in his native
country.
I first became involved with
the Arms of Love Children's Home in Nicaragua as part of a
short consultancy period. While living in Guatemala, I heard
through my relatives in Managua that there was an
opportunity to serve as the director of a Christian
children's home. Lacking any prior knowledge of the ministry
and the people involved, I agreed to serve the project as a
short-term consultant. It was not until I began working with
the project that I realized this was not a temporary
position, but a calling from God and the fulfillment of my
visions and dreams of twenty years ago, to help bring
restoration to my native country.
I am a Nicaraguan by birth,
but I received an education in business management in the
United States in the 1960's. The U.S. and Nicaraguan
governments were cooperating with each other on many
different levels at that time, and this gave me the
opportunity to study business, finance, accounting, and
administration with the U.S. Army and Air Force in Texas
over a period of about eight years. I subsequently served as
an administrator of the Children's Hospital in Managua, but
then left Nicaragua in 1979 at the time of the Sandinista
revolution and began supporting the opposition from
Guatemala.
In 1982, I had the
opportunity to meet Oren Paris II, Ray Wilkerson, now
deceased, Brance Edwards and Marina Rodriguez, all of whom
were connected with Youth With a Mission, at a breakfast
table at the Panamerican Hotel in Guatemala City. At the
time, I was under extreme stress due to my political
involvement with the turmoil and upheavals of my native
country, Nicaragua. I was not a Christian at that time and I
did not perceive any need to become one.
Then, in 1983, I met another
missionary from YWAM, this time, a young and very likeable
person, Chip Brown. During one of our political
conversations, back at my home in Antigua Guatemala, I said
during an outburst, "Hypocrisy is the name of the game," and
he answered me back, "Love is the name of Jesus Christ."
That started a continuing relationship with the YWAM
missionaries who were working in Guatemala, which would
eventually lead to my abandoning my political involvement
and dedicating my life to Christ.
Birth
of a Vision
During this time, civil war
continued to afflict my country. Young children and teens
were leaving Nicaragua, pushed out of its border by worried
parents who did not want them involved in the cruel and
bloody fighting in the jungles and mountains. The YWAM
missionaries wanted to start a project for these children by
buying a property and setting up a temporary shelter for
them in Guatemala, so they asked me to become an advisor or
manager for the project, inviting me to their base in Elm
Springs, Arkansas. I had at that time, in my initial
Christian desire to serve, a vision to help and restore the
exiled youth of my country, with a further desire to expand
that vision to embrace all those children in similar
circumstances.
My wife and I, together with
three of my children, moved to Arkansas in 1986, where we
participated in discipleship and missionary training. During
that time, I learned to know God and myself and how to find
my place in the kingdom of God. I also learned about God's
plans and His timing, and how He opens and closes doors for
those who decide to serve Him.
Unfortunately, circumstances
in Guatemala did not allow the vision and dream for the
children's shelter to come true. But I continued to serve
with YWAM for the next 16 years and had many wonderful
experiences, missionary ones as well as administrative,
planning and control ones. I even managed a Christian
television station for YWAM, but I had no opportunity to
fulfill my initial vision and dream to help the young people
of my country.
In 2000, we had the
opportunity to work among Central American immigrants in the
United States, who gathered in large numbers in Northwest
Arkansas, but when we saw a wonderful missionary door close
at the beginning of 2001, we decided to retire and move back
to Guatemala to be with our sons and grandchildren. Now I
see that this period of time was a required resting time and
that the Lord was preparing us for our next challenge. In
February 2002, through unusual circumstances, I got into
contact with Arms of Love, the sponsor of a very unique
project that included a Children's Home in Managua,
Nicaragua.
Just two weeks before, I had
been talking with one of my daughters-in-law about the
restlessness I was experiencing and the rising need to find
new work to fill my days. Who could have guessed that this
was a calling from God? Who would have guessed that what was
rising up in my path was not simply a laboral challenge but
an opportunity to serve Him as He revived my vision and
dreams of 1983?
The Vision Revived
More
than 20 years ago, when I first lived in Nicaragua, I
remember institutions like the "Orphan Girls from Nazareth
House" that offered protection, care and education to
abandoned and destitute girls on a permanent basis. They
were very suscessful in their efforts and their girls often
found employment as domestic help. Some even married, in
adequate circumstances. But these children were always known
as orphans and as products of an institutional - even if
private - approach.
Over the past 20 years,
social upheavals and changes have deeply affected my
country. While it is very sad and uncomfortable for me, as a
Nicaraguan, to make these observations, some things are
prevalent and easily recognizable. The country, as a whole,
has receded in its social development. The fabric of the
family has unraveled, and families of two biological parents
raising their own children are increasingly rare. There is
rampant corruption, and moral values and standards are
sorely lacking. There is a pervasive feeling and sense of
pettiness and distrust; despair among some; acceptance of
circumstances by many; and opportunism that shows in the
grabbing of any opportunity for personal profit or
advantage.
Many of the better-educated
people have left Nicaragua and their offspring do not want
to return, especially those living in the United States.
Seventy percent of the resident population in Nicaragua is
younger than 30, and a majority of young adults are single
mothers. Paternal responsibility is badly lacking and women,
who presently are the better-educated sector in their age
bracket (due to the nearly universal participation of the
men in armed conflicts in the 1970's and 1980's), are
holding better paying jobs than the men and have embraced a
sexually liberated behavior. This has led to a rise in
unwanted pregnancies, single motherhood, and male
irresponsibility, all of which add to financial
circumstances that are already difficult.
In response to these social
problems and conflicts, the government has promoted the
protection of children and the reunification of families
through a government agency known as "My Family Governmental
Ministry." Unfortunately, this government agency often
emphasizes temporary protection and solutions, rather than
solutions that will yield the greatest long-term benefit.
Moreover, the government agency often promotes family
reunification as a value greater than protecting children
from abusive relatives.
Into this general environment
comes the Arms of Love vision and project, which offers a
very contrasting approach. The ministry of Arms of Love is
rooted in the personal circumstances of some abandoned but
overcoming people, who through a blend of personal
achievement and a desire to share experiences and resources
from a Christian perspective, seek to achieve a
comprehensive and rightful restoration of moral, social, and
spiritual values for destitute, abandoned and abused
children.
The ministry of Arms of Love
emphasizes providing abandoned and abused children with
substitute Christian parenting and an upbringing in a family
environment that focuses on the care of the entire child, in
all of its physical, emotional, psychological, spiritual and
educational levels. This approach in Nicaragua is something
new, invigorating and challenging. It goes to the deep roots
of the social problems of the Nicaragua of today -
rebuilding the fabric of the family, which is at the heart
of so many of society's problems.
It is amazing how similar the
background experiences are of those involved in this
ministry. So many of the people involved have experienced
abandonment and neglect in their own lives, as well as
Christian care and concern. This is the appeal and the
foundation of the Arms of Love vision and its present
project in Nicaragua: providing destitute children with
Christian family values and a rightful home environment,
with blessings overflowing to the surrounding community in
the provision of Christian education, from the basic levels
to the high school and vocational levels - so that while the
children in the Children's Home heal from their past and
prepare for their future, the cycle of poverty is likewise
broken for other children at risk in the community. By using
the Children's Home as a model of the Christian family, an
example of comprehensive and holistic Christian care and
discipleship for children in need - and by placing it at the
center of a broader project that includes a grammar school,
a high school, meal programs, vocational training, and a
church that serve the broader community - we can restore the
values of the community and the social environment that once
existed in Nicaragua.
At the present time, my
personal challenge and immediate objectives, after
considering all the aspects and characteristics of the
project, are to (1) become Christian substitute
grandparents, my wife and I, of these destituted and
unprotected children; (2) mentor the current houseparents;
and (3) manage the financial and administrative aspects of
the project. God has called me to be an important part of
this overflowing and meaningful restoration project, and I
am looking forward to the completion of the work He has
given me to do.
I would ask you to pray:
Would He want you involved in
supporting this project?
Prayerfully? Financially?
Personally or through your church?
With your personal labor?
With short-term ministry teams?
With materials?
It is a wonderful vision!
It is a wonderful mission!
It is a wonderful project!
Will you help us to restore
these children and, in the end, a nation?